making a difference in male dominated world!!

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Blog Submitted by chikkuuu on Mon, 07/01/2008 - 2:25pm. in ::

Finally another year passed by and new year has started...

2008 has come.... who knows what’s in store for us this year???

after seeing the headlines on 1st day of the new year.... I really feel anything can happen anytime with any girl.... yes girls... we girls have always to fight for our rights...

these days we are just seeing rape cases rising....child molestation... and many crime against women...

why??? Why?? Why???

Are we not humans???
Don’t we have any freedom???

What has happened to the Indian males...? [: o]
they don't have any respect for the women??? Why is that so??
In the recent poll they say.... the "ideal women" would be a home-maker???
(what they mean to say.... the girl has to leave her career and sit at home... while he will in his office....)
bloody hell!!!! Only they want to be independent... they want their women to sit at home and they would be working.... [: O]

which generation are these men staying in...
They want to bask all the glory alone.... they can't see women progressing????

One has rightly said... these men who molest the helpless girl or even gang rape... are "BEASTS" ... that’s the perfect word for them....
they jus see the women as a body and not a human....
their future is now!!! [:o] they are not bothered what consequence will happen later...

in the movie "Life in a Metro..." they had showed same such instances... where the husband was enjoying with other woman.. But when his wife did the same... he was hurt.... or you can say his ego was hurt!!!!

Men can never understand what women go through... he is selfish... his heart is weak... a woman is strong... she suffers a lot... and her heart is strong too...
emotionally women are stronger than men...

its quite evident.... when a guy has a heart break... I mean when his girl ditches him... he can't handle it... he breaks down... thinks negative... then curses the girl saying she is bad... heartless...[:o]and blah blah!!!

We girls are bad and heartless... [:o][:o] that’s why we are being raped??? Is that so????
The guy throws tantrums and makes a scene out of the small issue... and all the blame is on us girls....

why? Why??? Why?????

Why we girls are always the receiving end of any crime???Or any suffering???
Our voices are sharply cut down by these people.... [:o]
we girls don't get our dues... today every guy wants that... only he has the right to enjoy... party.. and all... the girl partying... is bad..[:O] she can never make a home...[:o]
this is just what they think????

(Puhlleejj... all guys who are reading this blog... I don’t mean to offend you... but puhlleejj tell me... what you people really think... [:o])

Guys puhlleejj think... about it... and give me ur genuine opinion about this matter... i dont say... all you guys r beasts... there are jus handful of u ppl make spoil the name of all....

i even don't say... that all girls are nice and good... some are real bitches tooooo...
so in this blog.. I jus wan all your opinions on what u think about the on goings...

is our city safe enough for girls???
Has the mentality of guys changed so much???
What is it???
I want all your opinions...

any such instances where u want to highlight any issue... which maybe I have missed... puhlleejj... chip in all your views...

all your views are welcomed.....
Guys the new year eve case... jus think tat... what would u feel.... if it were ur sister... girlfriend...mother... cousin or even ur good frnd or colleague.... classmate... anyone u knew... jus thinkk abt it..

i mean i want to know... what punishment should be given to such "BEASTS!!" they shud not be let free... they wil commit the same mistake again.. it's all fun for themm.....

we need to raise our voice against this.....

who all are there wid me!!!????

And girls u also think... what would u have gone thru if it were u in their place...
jus think about the plight tat girls must have gone through....

I mean... not only tat New Year eve gals... I mean... all those girls who have been molested or tortured...

and am thankful to god... that it was not you... but even pray for their good health n recovery too... [:)] in that way u can do some good deed too...

tats it... tats all I want to say about the whole issue...

we have to make a difference.... guys should learn to respect the women.... [:(]

every opinion matters.... puhlleejj give me your feed back!!!!

I will be waiting for your views...

thanks...

take care...

god bles all of you!!!

ashish
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Submitted by ashish on Tue, 08/01/2008 - 4:50am.

wow !! u seem to be feeling very strongly on this topic!! :o

my view is that u cant change the world, so dont focus too much on the bad, just surround yourself with the good that is around u.

as someone great has said (not me! ):

"if youre a pessimist youre right!
if youre an optimist youre right too!"

i.e. you make your own world. so dont paint too sad a pic of the world based on a few stupid ppl's actions. its not the correct pic. look around u, ull see lots of good men doing lots of good things.

and btw, we all should learn that "media is not the real news, media is only news that sells". the same media wont report if you did a good deed, but theyll report if you did something bad. so understand that "the world is not like that, only media is!"

so take a deep breath, have a nice cup of coffee, relax and get that smile back on your face! its priceless!

rambhai
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Submitted by rambhai on Sun, 10/02/2008 - 8:36pm.

i actually support your opinion~~`the indian society still remains male dominated~~which is indeed sad~~

regards
rambhai
http://www.rambhai.com/

chikkuuu
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Submitted by chikkuuu on Tue, 19/02/2008 - 4:55pm.

taannku... both of ya...

if u wanna see others view onn this topic then chk this site:

http://each-opinion-matters.blogspot.com/

taankuu again

Rahul24m
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Submitted by Rahul24m on Fri, 03/07/2009 - 1:52pm.

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