Does best friendships (Man/Woman) have to get physical?

i think u r right

not not necessarily, it does not have to get physical always ...

in fact after physicality, feelings like jealousy, possessiveness, exclusivity, hurt come up more.

i.e. if youre friends, you may not mind her having other friends, but if youre getting physical, then youll insist she is so only with you!!

so phyciality in many ways narrows the relationship too.

HITESH EXPERIMENTED A LOT , IT SEEMS . BUT HE IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE.

@pradyut lol thats funny

Not necessarily. But it no wrong if friends get involved in a physical bond if they intend to be life partners.

One has to be physical to know each other more closely- but advise me about the married ones ?? !!!

Not necessarily, , also depends on the 2 people involved and their views on this. .

A friendship is friendship it should not be mixed up with physical relationship.
Going physical is very personal issued of 2 individuals who prefer to go for physical relations.
A friendship with intention to have physical relations is wrong and wiked friendship and that person is definetly not a good person and friend too.
Friendship goes physical only when two individual friends feels comfortable in eachothers company and also craves for touch of eachother.
physical relations are natural its made by god it can not be condemned.

In friendship i feel a good understanding and compatiblity is required. Physical realtionships spoil a good friendship unless the two are totally committed to the relationship and want it to work as friendship is the base of any realtionship or rather should be.
As for physical relationships i would term it as love making rather than sex. Cos i believe sex should be an expression of love not just fullfillment of a need or just plain lust.Each to his own. I respect a individuals choice , but I would not go in for a relationship which is based on pure lust. the emotional bonding is necessary for me to get into anything deeper.

u r a hypocrite

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AnkurSahu

If both r on same wavelength mentally, where is the need 2 go beyond to the physical plane........

rubbish

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ya u r right dude?

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waht r u doinG dude,,,,[:)]

ya u r right dude?

physical also means a light touch,a happy pat a warm holding of the hands.A friendship should have a physical element only then the minds will come closure and then you reach the heart and finally the soul. When you reach the last stage you dont need any physical relationship.
pradeep

ya i think

can be

go with the flow...

The meaning of physical is to be determined here. Physical touch is something which is okay in a man-woman relationship and by that I mean a show of affection and closeness.
If the physical relationship is of a sexual nature- there is no right or wrong there, but its not "essential" part of the relationship.

stupid thinking

Hey guys,
There seems to be a lot of confusion on the issue. Dr Shekhar Sheshadri of NIMHANS, Bangalore is doing a lot of work in the area - he hold workshops about `what it means to be male' and gender sensitisation programes. Mail me if you would like to attend and i'd pass on his contacts. All I can say is that there is more to being a man than penetration and ejaculation. Make friends first with a woman, genuine friendship without expectations. Then if you both want to touch each other, it should ideally come from mutual love and respect. As for your questions about `matured' friendships, it is used these days for sex without any responsibility. Definitely not healthy. Not great for your self-esteem. I am a qualified clinical psychologist, not practising though. So thought id take liberty to talk about this, cause your sexuality and sexual behaviour is a vital issue for every one of you. All the best. feel free to respond.

I think it depends on two individuals. Though Phsical touch may not be needed in a friendship but if both friends are agree on th same, what is wrong. The main point is that friends should respect each others feelings and go by that. I am sure if it goes in that way, Physical or no physical, the friendship will continue.

if this could be applied unversily then why not you sleep with boys,afterall they are friends too.if u want to get physical then that is not friendship,either love or lust.

if u wanna talk abou friendship than be specific o u just wanna have sexual relation. Its ur perceptn how u wanna see the things.

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hai mallika can v b frnd if yes contact on nik_8917@yahoo.com or on 09818046479

Chankaya had said in one of his writings that "friendship is the only relation which man makes himself. He further calls it a wonderful relation ,but feels sorry as he says next , though it is a best relation but friendship cannot be done without selfishness"

Read one of our sacred text:
Because the female and male energies in men and women are not in balance this creates an attraction in the physical body
for the opposite sex...
If you are able to circulate your energy (Shakti) in a circle,
you will not need another woman or another man...because your own female will meet and merge with your own male and you will be the Whole and to be Whole is holy...this is Crystalisation...
all the energies of Heaven and Earth,light and dark, positive and negative are crystallized...

This openness is ownness!!!

This is the Mystery of consciousness!!!

This is where Shakti meets Shiva!!!

Otherwise, one remains a man, one remains a woman and both are constantly creating attraction for one another. When the male within and the female within come into equal balance, ...and samadhi is attained, ...it is openness in Oneness!!!

Just Being in Oneness with no attraction or repulsion..neither man nor woman enter into your consciousness...Harmony between the Macrocosm and Microcosm, ...the outer and the inner...Shakti and shiva...
Complete Union and Self satisfaction...ONE

abs

absolutely bullshit,see first of all the guys who are in favor of sex in relationship are really hypocrite, just think if your friend comes to your home and becomes gud friend of ur sister and eventually the same do you thnk you will accept, iam asking guys like nishant and pradyout, the lascivious nature gets precipited thru ur words, yes man is like that ...this is not to offend u, think reality...beleive in basics of india, gaining some few bucks after ur elite job and booshing up doesn' tmean that u have transcended and escaleted to western culture where it started like this even they are transforming ......its not about sex.
ya some one had said about sexless love and loveless sex are not mutually exclusive...indeed..
post ur comments guy

well i depends on the kind of friendship one has!!!!!!!!!

not really. it depends on the individual.

friend ship is not at all related to physical it all about feeling

I think it depends on the individual

I agree with Hitesh. As soon as the physical element comes in between a man and a woman, it becomes a Relationship and no longer remains Friendship.

do not agreee

See the movie "Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na", Dedications can also lead to Good Relations, in our community whenever any sees a male and female together they directly comment "lafda hai kya", but nobody thinks about friendship.

don't make it open ended by saying DEPENDS? If both parties are ready for this with safe means, I don't think there is an issue or needs to create a chaos on it.

that depends....what is inside ur mind.......loyalty or just LUSTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

it totally depends on the attitude of both the persons, the requirement of both the persons and the commitment between the both also effects a lot.

ya that is also true...

Why one should have physical contact in the guise of friendship?? Friendship without physical contact is also possible. Having sex and friends are different. If the friendsship leads to physical contact, it can not be friendship,
but an affair between two people.

I think between friends their is no bonding and if a physical relation ship it included boding with care and more restrictions and that feelings no one can stop..

No they shouldnt get into physical... Getting physical should be only with ur life partner not with frnd...

Its right it depend upon both of them because they know eachother and they can decide that they have to do as per their age

friendship n love are two seperate issues...

There r many people who face such kind of issues......even they mutually agree on all the points made and about the commitments, but still breakups r there.....so I want to quote that everything is allowable but-but at a right age......or better 2 say at right age of maturity.
Some of my friends quoted what after marriage..I want to add it is a kind of true & pure bond of lives that there is no space in mind that one will go for somebody else......comments are invited -kamal

According to me
each n every relation needs understandin whether it may b love or frndship
if der is understanding between two individuals den wat is d need of any physical relation
Ya if both d person dont hav any prob regarding being physical den der is no issue

But i personally feels tat der should nt b any physical relation in a frndship
If it is den wat will b d difference between FRNDSHIP AND LUST

frndshp needs no no touch or physical touch.
it comes through heart. No matters it's man\woman or man\man